My mom sent a text saying, “Skip my birthday. We need a break from your kid.” I didn’t argue. I simply turned around and took my baby back home. Two weeks later, when they found out we spent Thanksgiving at a private lodge with friends who flew us out, my mom’s first message was, “Why didn’t you tell us you were going there?” I got angry and replied.

No big tree in a two-story foyer. No matching pajamas for a dozen cousins. No loud laughter that made the neighbors complain.

It looked like my apartment—small, warm, and slightly chaotic in the way life gets when you live with a baby who doesn’t care what day it is. The tree in the corner was real but not perfect, leaning slightly because the cheap stand never tightened quite right. Ornaments were mismatched: a paper snowflake Vanessa’s niece made, a tiny felt reindeer, a “Baby’s First Christmas” ornament I bought at Target and cried over in the aisle.

When Dad arrived, he stood in the doorway for a second as if he wasn’t sure he was allowed inside.

His coat was dusted with snow. His eyes looked tired. He was holding a grocery bag in one hand and a small gift bag in the other.

“I didn’t know what babies need,” he said, clearing his throat. “So I brought… groceries.”